Daily Dating Tips

Thinking About a Matchmaker? Start Here

you’re tired of bad dates, hiring a matchmaker sounds like genius. “Let someone else filter.” “Let someone else search.” And we agree: a good matchmaker can save you time and introduce you to quality people. But here’s what no brochure says: If you hand a matchmaker your power, you can: Relax your own discernment, Assume “they’ve done

Esther Perel On Infidelity

hear Esther Perel say: “Affairs are not always about a lack of love—they can be about a lack of self.” It’s insightful. It makes you think. Cheating has roots: disconnection, deadness, identity crises. Couples who want to rebuild need to understand those roots. But for Black partners already blamed for everything, nuance can become gaslighting if you’re

Dating Websites Give You Options, Not Answers

On dating websites, there’s always another profile. New match. New message. New “hey stranger.” It feels like abundance—but is it really? We agree: dating websites can be useful. They: Expand your pool, Show you other serious singles, Give you a way to state what you want. But more faces don’t equal more clarity. Without a strategy,

Why Dating Tips for Singles Aren’t Enough

heard all the dating tips for singles: “Be yourself.” “Don’t be too available.” “Keep an open mind.” Cute. But here’s the truth—those dating tips for singles were not written with you in mind: a Black professional with a mission, responsibilities, and a legacy to build. You don’t just need to “be yourself.” You need to heal

Before You Pay for Matchmaking Services, Ask This

You’re thinking about matchmaking services. You’re tired. You’re busy. You’re done with apps. It makes sense. Good matchmaking services can: Save time, Offer discretion, Introduce you to serious people. But before you hand over thousands, ask: Do they care about my readiness—or just my fee? Do they understand Black/Afro-Caribbean life, or will I spend time explaining

Esther Perel On Fantasises

Esther Perel says our fantasies are like an X-ray of our erotic selves. For once, someone is telling you: “Don’t judge; get curious.” Shame suffocates desire. Fantasy can help couples understand what turns them on. But not every fantasy is a friend. For trauma survivors, some fantasies are wounds in costume. For stressed Black professionals,

Esther Peral On Desire

You hear Esther Perel say: “Love wants closeness, desire needs distance.” And you think, “That explains so much.” She’s right that: Domestic grind can kill desire, Curiosity and play keep relationships alive. But as a Black professional, you’re already living with risk—racism, finances, family. You don’t just need excitement. You need safety and aliveness, not one

London Matchmaker? Great If They Measure This One Thing

probably heard of agencies: “Elite London matchmaker for busy professionals.” And honestly? There are real benefits: Less swiping More serious people Local networks We’re not against that. But if you’re a Black professional, here’s the question that decides whether it’s a blessing or a trap: “Is this London matchmaker matching me for optics… or for destiny?”

Before You Hire a UK Matchmaker, Ask This

probably thought, “I’m done with apps. Maybe I need a UK matchmaker.” And honestly? You might be right. We agree: Curated introductions beat endless swiping. People who invest in matchmaking are usually more serious. Human judgment can catch things an algorithm can’t. But here’s the question most people forget to ask: “What criteria is this matchmaker

A Relationship Expert London

probably seen the websites: “Relationship Expert London – I’ll help you find love in the city.” And there’s value there. They know the vibe, the venues, the pace. We agree that local insight can make dating less random. But if you’re a Black professional, there’s a deeper question no postcodebased expert can answer for you: “Who