Why Dating Tips for Singles Aren’t Enough

You’ve heard all the dating tips for singles: “Be yourself.” “Don’t be too available.” “Keep an open mind.” Cute. But here’s the truth—those dating tips for singles were not written with you in mind: a Black professional with a mission, responsibilities, and a legacy to build. You don’t just need to “be yourself.” You need to heal yourself. You don’t just need to “keep an open mind.” You need a clear filter. You don’t just need more dates. You need a strategy. Because your next partner will either be fertiliser for your future or poison in your soil. That’s why we built the Relationship Readiness Masterclass, where we turn generic dating tips for singles into a blueprint tailored to your life. The Matchmaking Readiness Audit checks whether your behaviour lines up with that blueprint. And inside the 1,000 Couples Challenge, you’re no longer just “single” following random tips—you’re a strategist building toward a serious partner in 90 days or less. Tips are fine. Strategy is freedom.